1. Be Kind - There's nothing more attractive than kindness. How does a guy treat the wait staff? Does he tip because he knows that his/her livelihood depends on it? Does he care about people that he doesn't even know? Is he empathetic to people who are hurting? I pay attention to all of these things. How does he react to homeless people? Is there a specific cause that he's really passionate about? Like animals or children..? Kindness is very sexy!
2. Be Smart - I really like to be stimulated mentally. There have been a couple guys that I wasn't even attracted to until we started having a conversation. Sometimes what's coming out of your mouth and what's in your head is way more important than anything else. I really need to be able to have a conversation with you about something other than sports.
3. Your Passion - I think it is so adorable when a guy is really passionate about something. It may not even be something that I know anything about. Actually, it's even better if I don't. It's nice to learn about something new. Sometimes it even ends up being something that I will enjoy as well. Having matching interests upon meeting is not always necessary.. this is one of the reasons why!
4. Make Me Laugh - Being able to make me laugh is a huge plus. Being able to laugh and have fun together is critical in a relationship. If you love sharing meme's and laughing at stupid puns, that's even better.
5. Be Thoughtful - It should come as no surprise that this made the list. I love a guy who is thoughtful. A guy who does things to show he appreciates me on random days for no reason at all other than that he loves me. A guy who loves me enough to show it through his actions. I've never had anyone like this, so having this trait is non-negotiable.
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